I have written for over a year at the blog Marriage, Separation, and Divorce. I have alot of info there that relates to this whole topic of saving marriages. Browse around and see if you find something helpful.
The purpose of this blog is to give encouragement to those who are desperate to save their marriage. I was there once, and God's grace reconciled our marriage. I am not a professional counselor, I am just a traveler on this road of marriage who wants to comfort others with the comfort I have recieved from Christ. I hope to be one member in a person's support team to help them on their road to reconciliation. I am open to sharing with men or women.